It won’t damage it but it will add noise.
BDSM is becoming more publicly accepted so it was only a matter of time before pop culture created a softened/distorted version of it. The same thing happens with any underground scene that is initially misunderstood… heavy metal, marijuana, feminism, anarchism. Once a special-interest niche becomes large enough, the public is forced to face it and it becomes another part of our culture, whether some people like it or not. The BDSM community won’t be damaged simply because we’re not easily fooled or persuaded. We’ll be the same. There will just be more noise around us. It’s easy to tell the soft-grungers from the true metalheads, or the ignorant man-haters from real feminist activists fighting for change. It’s just a billboard on the side of the road that you train yourself to ignore.
And the positive side of it is that 50 Shades may be useful as an introduction for some people. It could act as a gateway to real BDSM.
Fav is when a girl is fun/cute/playful while also being submissive & respectful. And brattiness is always a deal breaker
Not a standard, but like anyone else I have my likes and dislikes. I won’t post them though because it tends to scare girls off, or make them feel inadequate which is the last thing want to do on my blog. The more people who feel comfortable talking to me, the better.
Everything on the surface is so sexual and perverse, that my deep dark fantasies are actually about paying off student loans and organizing my closet. That shit gets me off, but shh don’t tell anyone
Yes, the type where all we do is fuck and watch movies
Stressed from work.
Need a blowjob.