It’s my mothafuckin birthday today.

After spending an evening reading through your entire blog, I have a question! You discussed the difference between a girlfriend and a sub but I was wondering if you exhibit Dom/Daddy traits outside of the bedroom when you're with a girlfriend. For example, being the one who makes decisions about smaller things (movies, restaurants ect.). Or if your girlfriend is stressed do you step in and make her take care of herself ect.? Thanks for having such a wonderful blog! — Asked by Anonymous

multiple-organisms:

Good question. My dom side (controlling, strict, aggressive) only comes out in sexual situations and it’s triggered by sexual submissiveness. But my daddy side (protective, decisive, instructive) is always around. I like teaching and care taking anywhere and everywhere.

A sub is dependent on me to make her choices for her, and it’s her responsibility to obey.

A girlfriend is independent and makes her own choices until she needs help. When she does, it’s my responsibility to advise and protect and care for her.

I'm confused... Are you looking for a significant other or are you happy single? Also, when you ARE in a relationship, are you loyal and faithful or do you like to fuck whoever you want when you want? — Asked by Anonymous

I’m happy being single and I’m also open to anything; significant other, casual sex, bondage partner, etc. Whatever works best with the girl in question.

Same goes for when I am in a relationship. It’s always a case by case basis, as it should be for anyone. If we agree that we want to be monogamous, I have no problem doing so. A dom without self control is not a dom.

Would you slap your sub ? — Asked by Anonymous

As a sign of affection, yes.

multiple-organisms:

When you’re especially bratty, I won’t be using my hand to spank you…

multiple-organisms:

Have a good weekend, my lovely little deviants

multiple-organisms:

Have a good weekend, my lovely little deviants

My bf is really bad in bed. What can I do to make him better at it? — Asked by Anonymous

multiple-organisms:

Replace him with me.