It’s my mothafuckin birthday today.
Good question. My dom side (controlling, strict, aggressive) only comes out in sexual situations and it’s triggered by sexual submissiveness. But my daddy side (protective, decisive, instructive) is always around. I like teaching and care taking anywhere and everywhere.
A sub is dependent on me to make her choices for her, and it’s her responsibility to obey.
A girlfriend is independent and makes her own choices until she needs help. When she does, it’s my responsibility to advise and protect and care for her.
I’m happy being single and I’m also open to anything; significant other, casual sex, bondage partner, etc. Whatever works best with the girl in question.
Same goes for when I am in a relationship. It’s always a case by case basis, as it should be for anyone. If we agree that we want to be monogamous, I have no problem doing so. A dom without self control is not a dom.
As a sign of affection, yes.
Replace him with me.